Monday, 11 August 2008
He didnt propose to me so dun get me wrong into wondering y i talk abt this suddenly. Just that he mentioned abt something n i suddenly realise tt i'm of age of getting married, actually all along i'm of age to get married once i'm above 21. Even below 21 oso can get married lah. On one hand, i dun wanna get married to late but on the other hand, i feel tt i have some phobia of getting married, probably watch too much dramas, listen to too much story etc. I have a happy family compared to some of my frenz and i do feel blissful although my family is not rich. Sometimes i wonder y i had tt phobia? In the past, i did dream of getting married by 25. Then when i became single, i told myself mayb before 30? If by 30 still cant get married, mayb 35? I think it's commitment tt give me the phobia. Wat's really bind a couple together forever?
I read it somewhere before that a couple should at least be together for a year before they get married, it's just like there are 4 seasons a year, so meaning tt shld experience it before the cycle repeat again.
My mom used to say tt a couple get married when 爱冲昏了头. She oso said tt getting married n setting up a family is part n parcel of life. Probably.... Anyway i'm not thinking too much abt it now cos i havent even experience 4 seasons yet, just enjoyed the process of being together wif YQ. I feel tt i havent noe him well enough but there is a phrase saying tt some couple break up bcos they knew each other too well, isnt it ironic? Relationship can be v complicated sometimes so my single frenz dun have to envy me. Eventually u all will encounter it. A lot of people only see things on the surface.
