Friday, 15 June 2007
今天在我报看到一篇文章关于再婚的问题。美国有位畅销书籍夫妻作者比喻男人的心理特征和烘饼(waffle) 一样,而女人则像意大利面(spaghetti)。 因为烘饼的表层有许多小格子,男人可以在不同的格子中做不同的事物,分配时间,分配情感,每一个格子都能存着不同的女人,在每个阶段拥有不同的感情。女人的心思着类似意大利面,因为她生活的一切都纠缠在一起,千丝万缕,所以女人对感情是难以割舍的。
其实我还蛮同意这个比喻,cos men r from Mars n women r from venus。Men n women r two different creatures although both r 人类。因为我觉得男人的心可以同时存着对几个女人的感情但女人啊好像只可以存着对一个男人的感情。对我来说,我只能在一个阶段储存着对一个人的情感,我不会把以前的情感都储存在别的格子里,过去的就让它像风一样的消失吧!
最近在报章读到某某一位新传媒的艺人在自己20之前就以为自己定下未来十年的目标。她要在二十岁之前拥有一张信用卡,二十五岁前拥有一辆车,三十岁前拥有一栋房子。忽然我就想到那我在三十岁之前想要达到什么目标呢?
First I wanna pass my remaining ACCA paper 3.1, 3.5 & 3.6, hopefully, i can clear all by Dec06.
Next, I wanna get a Oxford Brookes Degree after clearing my ACCA Paper.In the meanwhile, I oso wanna get a driving licence while getting my degree.So hopefully, before I'm 25, i got enough $$ to buy a Mazda car n hopefully my investment earns lots of $$$.....N after 2 year of relevant experience after I complete my ACCA, I wanna become a Singapore CPA. Maybe after getting a degree, I may wanna get a MBA (Master in Business Administration) - haven't decided whether i really wanna get a MBA.Oh.... getting married is not one of my target cos 一切随缘。。。somemore i feels tt setting up a family needs a lot of commitments, not easy..... n i seems to enjoy my life rite now n i've so many places which i haven't visit! But who noes.... mayb i may get married suddenly.... haha.....
Tuesday, 12 June 2007
幸福是。。。每天可以睡到自然醒而不是被闹钟吵醒
幸福是。。。每天都有好吃的东西可以吃
幸福是。。。每天过着与世无争的日子
幸福是。。。家人无论什么时候都会陪伴在你身边,关心你,鼓励你
幸福是。。。偶尔想到某人的时候脸上总是会流露出甜蜜的傻笑?
幸福是。。。很多时候都无话用言语来表达的。。。
总之,一年里面的365天里,总会有让你很幸福的理由去珍惜身边所有的人与事物。。。我不相信来世,所以不会给自己机会或是借口,到时候再细说从头。。。
所以一定要幸福、快乐地度过每一天哦!